This is a handmade yukata. It's a 2-piece set, making it easy to put on and take off. It can be washed normally if placed in a laundry net. The set includes a top, a skirt, and two satin obi sashes. We do not accept size alterations. The sizing is based on standard baby clothes, so it should generally fit as is. We will ship via regular mail. The price includes shipping, so we cannot offer discounts. Thank you for your understanding.