This is a gray Konny baby carrier. The color is Charcoal (gray) and is easy to use regardless of gender. It comes with a head support, instruction manual, and carrying bag. I used it from newborn to about 4 months, but I have extremely sloped shoulders and my child is large, so I switched to a regular baby carrier partway through, which is why I'm selling it. It's compact and very useful for putting the baby to sleep. It's mesh and dries easily after washing. It's not very worn.