Worn only once for a wedding. I believe there are no stains or frays. It's a type that wraps around from the back and ties in the front. It's a good length, covering the upper arms and allowing for a ribbon tie. The color is black. It's not just a single-layer stole; it has many flower-patterned frills, so it feels quite substantial. I think it can be worn elegantly and beautifully even by older people. I bought it at a department store's party wear section. I forgot the price, but I think it was reasonably expensive. Size 38 Wedding Party Stole Black Lace