This is a beautiful stole with a lovely lace pattern in black with silver glitter. It's hard to tell from the image, but the silver glitter is subtle and pretty. The glitter isn't too flashy, so it seems suitable for everyday use. I bought this new for a wedding, but ended up not using it and have been storing it. There doesn't seem to be any damage. How about it for weddings, parties, or dance costumes? Please understand that this is a used item that has been stored at home. It's approximately 55cm x 155cm.