I purchased this about 2 years ago. I usually use something else, so I've only used this twice for trips ( ᵕᴗᵕ ) There may be small scratches from carrying it around or storing it, but it is in very clean condition and should be usable without any problems ☆ I think the color is suitable for both men and women ☺︎ For hygiene reasons, I will not include the straw part, so please purchase it separately ☺︎