I used this item on a daily basis. The cuffs are ribbed and have a fold-over, so I think it's warm. The color in the 7th photo is closest to the actual item, a calm, pale pink. It has a ribbon, but it's not overly frilly, so it seems like it would be a good compromise for both parent and child's tastes. - Blue paint stain on the cuffs - Black scuff marks on the back of the collar (not noticeable as I don't wear the collar up.) - Pet owner Will be compressed for shipping. The shipping company may be changed.